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Gift for your brother-in-law: what to give jiju, a saala or a devar, and when a candle is the right call

A brother-in-law gift should be friendly, not personal. For jiju or a devar setting up his own home, Vanilla Reverie (Rs 549), a vanilla candle in an amber jar, or a navy Spiral Pillar (Rs 179) for his desk. For a gadget-lover, buy the gadget.

By Raajkosh

Key takeaways

  • Jiju, saala and devar are three relationships; choose for each one.
  • A gift for jiju is also a gift for your sister's home.
  • Do not compete on price: a Rs 549 jar with a funny note beats an expensive watch.
  • If he wants a gadget or a jersey, buy that instead of a candle.
Vanilla Reverie: a vanilla soy candle in an amber glass jar with a black screw lid

Three different brothers-in-law

In English it is one word. In an Indian family it is three relationships, and each needs a different gift:

  • Jiju (your sister's husband): teased, fed, and given the best chair. A gift for him is also a gift for your sister, so it should suit their home.
  • Saala (your wife's brother): often younger, often in a hostel or a first job. Something casual.
  • Devar or jeth (your husband's brother): you are new to his family, or he is new to yours. Something correct and friendly.

Raajkosh hand-pours soy wax candles in Jalandhar. A candle is not the gift for every brother-in-law, and we will say when it is not.

When a candle works for him

It works for the brother-in-law who has just moved into a new flat, who keeps a tidy desk, who enjoys a calm room after work, or for jiju when the gift is really for his and your sister's home. It does not work for a man who wants a gadget, a cricket jersey, a bottle or a gaming voucher; buy those from the right shop.

What we would give, by relation

For Gift Pack Shop price
Jiju, for the home he shares with your sister Seashell Candles: two conch-shell vessels, sky blue and sand beige 2 candles Rs 899
Jiju, for himself Vanilla Reverie: warm vanilla in an amber glass jar with a black lid; our only scented candle 1 jar Rs 549
A saala in a hostel or first job Spiral Pillar Candles, single navy: looks sharp on a desk, lit or not 1 candle Rs 179
A devar or jeth setting up his first home Braided Candles: four round candles with a plaited rim for an empty shelf 4 candles Rs 849

Vanilla Reverie with the Seashell Candles is Rs 1,448 and ships free, because shipping is free from Rs 999. Vanilla Reverie with a navy Spiral Pillar is Rs 728, plus Rs 79 shipping.

Jiju deserves a special mention

Searches for a "special gift for jiju" usually come from a younger sister- or brother-in-law who wants to make a good impression, often on a student's budget. Two honest pieces of advice:

  1. Do not compete on price. Jiju will be embarrassed by an expensive gift from a younger sibling. A Rs 549 jar with a funny note beats an expensive watch.
  2. Make it a joke he is in on. "For the man who survived our family's Diwali" on the gift note will be repeated at every function for a year.

To put "Jiju" or his name on the tag itself, a custom enquiry on our custom orders page does that. We reply with what is possible, a timeline and a price.

Occasions for a brother-in-law gift

His birthday, Diwali, Bhai Dooj in families where jiju is included, his first visit after the wedding, a new job, or a new home. For jiju and didi's anniversary, give one gift to both of them; our anniversary gift for bhaiya bhabhi or didi jiju page covers that.

What men usually get instead

Perfume sets, wallets, belts, watches, grooming kits, dry fruits and gadgets are the usual brother-in-law gifts, and leather brands, electronics stores and gifting portals do them well. If he would use one of those, buy it. A candle is for the man who would not buy one for himself but will light it every evening once he has one.

Sending it to him, prepaid

We deliver across India, dispatching in 24 to 48 hours and delivering 2 to 7 days after dispatch; order early and check the delivery estimate for his pincode on the product page. Payment is prepaid only (UPI, card, net banking or wallet); there is no cash on delivery. Optional gift packaging and a gift note are on the product page. Shop orders can be returned on a request within 24 hours of delivery, and damage reported within 24 hours is replaced or refunded.

Tell him the rule for any candle: a stable, heat-proof surface, never unattended, and keep each burn to 3 to 4 hours.

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Vanilla candle in an amber glass jar with gold flakes on the wax, beside its black screw lid and vanilla pods

Vanilla Reverie

Vanilla-scented soy wax in an amber glass jar, finished with gold flakes.

₹549MRP ₹69921% off

Two conch-shell candles, one sky blue and one sand beige, topped with pink wax shells, pearls and gold starsNew

Seashell Candles

Two conch-shell candles in sky blue and sand beige, topped with wax shells.

₹899MRP ₹1,09918% off

Five twisted spiral pillar candles in ivory, pink, blue, yellow and navy, laid side by sideNew

Spiral Pillar Candles

Twisted spiral pillar candles in ivory, pink, blue, yellow and navy.

from₹179MRP ₹22922% off

Four round candles with chunky braided rims in pink, blue, butter yellow and peachNew

Braided Candles

Four round candles with a chunky braided rim, in four pastel colours.

₹849MRP ₹99915% off

Frequently asked

  • Vanilla Reverie at Rs 549 for him, or the Seashell Candles at Rs 899 for the home he shares with your sister, with a funny note.

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